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2 Apr 2026

One simple phrase to try this weekend

By |2026-03-31T14:15:59-07:00April 2nd, 2026|Youth Ministry Ideas|1 Comment

Hey friend,

We know this week is full.

There’s a lot happening, a lot of people to connect with, and it’s easy to move from one conversation to the next without really slowing down.

So just a quick encouragement for this Easter weekend: Stay curious.

When someone (a student, parent, etc.) shares something, even something small… pause and ask:

“Tell me more about that.”

That one simple phrase can open the door to a more meaningful conversation where someone feels truly seen and cared for.

You don’t have to rush through every interaction.

Pay attention, stay curious, and see what God might be doing right in front of you.

Praying for you this week, you’ve got this!

We hope you have a really special Holy Week.

DYM Team

2 Apr 2026

Young Leaders vs Older Leaders – Who Connects Better?

By |2026-03-06T15:48:11-08:00April 2nd, 2026|communication, Help Me With..., Hybrid Ministry, online youth group, Podcast, Technology, Youth Ministry Hacks, Youth Ministry Ideas|1 Comment

Volunteer Leaders are so crucial to a healthy youth ministry.

But as you recruit, should you focus more on older leaders? Or younger leaders? I

n this debate style episode we have two leaders make their case on both sides of the aisle! Let’s dive in, together!

And if you’re interested in seeing more of what the Hybrid Ministry Show has to offer, I’d love to encourage you to check out more!

31 Mar 2026

When your small group won’t talk…

By |2026-03-31T14:13:59-07:00March 31st, 2026|Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

Hey friends,

You know that moment…

You ask a question in small group and get nothing but blank stares. Like… not even a head nod. Just silence.

I’ve been there more times than I can count in 20+ years of leading small groups.

If you’ve got volunteers leading students, here are 3 simple shifts you can pass on to them this week to help get conversations going:

1. Ask specific questions.

Instead of “What did you think?” try something like:

  • “What do you think this says about God?”
  • “What part of this is hard to understand or believe?”
  • “Have you ever experienced something like this?”
2. Let them talk to one person first.

Students are way more likely to talk to one person than a whole group.

Try this:“Turn to the person next to you and share your answer.”

Then come back and ask:“Alright, what did you guys talk about?”

This lowers the pressure and gets everyone involved!

3. Affirm every response.

If students aren’t talking, it might be because they don’t feel safe yet.

When someone shares, respond with:

  • “That’s really good”
  • “I’m glad you said that”
  • “Thanks for being honest”
When students feel safe, they talk more.

Small shifts like these can completely change the tone of a group.

And if you want to equip your volunteers with more practical tools like this, that’s exactly why we created the National Day of Volunteer Youth Ministry Training.

It’s a training you can just press play on and use with your whole team.

If you’d like to learn more about it, you can check it out here.

Thanks for serving your students and volunteers so faithfully. I’m taking a moment to pray for you as you head into the stretch toward Easter, you’ve got this!

30 Mar 2026

When Students Quit Showing Up

By |2026-03-06T13:04:15-08:00March 30th, 2026|Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

Students disappear from youth ministry for all sorts of reasons. Sports schedules get heavy, family life shifts, friendships change, or they simply drift out of the habit of coming. It is easy for leaders to assume a student is “done” once a few weeks turn into a few months. In many cases that assumption is wrong. A surprising number of students are open to reconnecting if someone notices their absence and reaches out in a genuine way.

Start with simple contact. A short text or message works well because it feels low pressure. Something like, “Hey, we’ve missed seeing you around. How have you been?” keeps the tone relational instead of corrective. Students often assume adults only notice them when they do something wrong, so hearing that someone actually noticed their absence can mean more than you realize. The goal of that first message is not to convince them to come back immediately. It is simply to reopen the door to conversation.

If the student responds, focus on listening before inviting them back. Ask what their schedule looks like lately or what they have been busy with. Sometimes you will learn about sports seasons, family changes, school stress, or friend group shifts that explain why they stopped attending. When students feel heard rather than pressured, they are more likely to consider reconnecting later.

Small invitations also help. Instead of asking a student to return to a full program right away, invite them to something simple: grabbing a snack after school, helping set up for youth group, or joining a service project. A lower barrier makes it easier for them to reappear without feeling awkward about being gone.

Volunteers can play an important role here as well. A student might ignore a message from the main youth pastor but respond quickly to a small group leader they trust. Encourage your leaders to reach out occasionally to students who have drifted away. A short message from the right person can reopen a relationship that felt closed.

Some students will not return immediately, and that is okay. Staying present in small ways still matters. A quick message on their birthday, a comment on a sports accomplishment, or a congratulations when they pass a driver’s test reminds them that the ministry still cares about them. When their schedule shifts again or they start asking bigger questions about life and faith, they will remember where those relationships were waiting.

26 Mar 2026

Same Small Group Leader for 7 Years vs Changing Every Year

By |2026-03-30T09:28:40-07:00March 26th, 2026|communication, Help Me With..., Hybrid Ministry, online youth group, Podcast, Technology, Youth Ministry Hacks, Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

Small Group Leaders are the life-blood of any good student ministry.

But what is our most effective strategy to deploy them?

Is it to saddle a great leader with students for their entire careeer? Or is it rather to introduce students to great leaders along their journey?

In this first debate style episode we have two amazing youth pastors, on two different sides of the argument, and they’re going head to head, and you get to be the voter!

And if you’re interested in seeing more of what the Hybrid Ministry Show has to offer, I’d love to encourage you to check out more!

26 Mar 2026

Why We Built PAKA

By |2026-03-26T08:28:31-07:00March 26th, 2026|Youth Ministry Hacks, Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

You know that moment.

The one where you just asked what you thought was a really solid small group question, and now six teenagers are staring at the floor like you asked the question in a language that they can’t understand. The silence stretches on for what feels like eternity. Someone picks at their shoelace. Another one checks the phone that they’re hiding under their leg (as if you can’t see it).

And you’re sitting there thinking, “I spent 45 minutes prepping for this discussion… and we’re only three minutes in…

Yeah. We know that moment too. Because every single person on our team has also been that small group leader.

Here’s the thing about DYM that I think sometimes gets lost…. we’re not a tech company that decided to make youth ministry products. We’re youth workers who are trying to make tools that we wish we had when we were first getting started. Every person on this team has sat in a circle of folding chairs, tried to get a 7th grader to open up about literally anything, and done the mental math on how many pizzas to order for 23 kids (but also Trevor eats like four people, so really it’s 26).

We’ve led the small groups. We’ve run the games. We’ve been the ones frantically googling “fun (but not lame) ice breaker questions for teens” in the church parking lot five minutes before students show up.

And that’s why PAKA exists. It’s because we kept building the same little tools for ourselves and finally thought, “Why don’t we just put all of this in one place?

You see, for most of us, the hardest part of small group isn’t the lesson. It’s the talking. Getting students to actually engage in conversation is an art form… especially if you’re new to leading a group and you’re still building trust with your students. You ask a deep question and get… nothing. You ask a silly question and get… still nothing. It’s brutal.

So we started thinking about all the little things that actually work when you’re in the trenches. The stuff that doesn’t require a projector (or a felt board??) or hours of planning. We were looking for the ideas and activities you can pull out of your back pocket if (…let’s face it, it’s usually when) the plan falls apart.

That’s PAKA. It’s a “pack a” (get it??!?!?) tools like ice-breaker questions, Would You Rather questions, low-prep games, a spinning wheel, a pizza calculator, and yes, an awkward silence detector that plays cricket sounds when nobody’s talking. Because sometimes the best way to break the tension is to just name it.

But there’s a key part to PAKA that makes it even more magical… It’s free.

Yeah, we made PAKA free. No account required. No subscription. You just download it and go.

Why? It all goes back to the fact that our entire team knows what it’s like to be a volunteer small group leader with a full-time job, two kids, and about eleven minutes to “prep” for Wednesday night. We didn’t need another platform to log into. We needed something we could open on our phone while walking from the car to the youth room.

That’s the whole idea. You’re five minutes out from small group time, you don’t have a plan, your co-leader just texted that they’re sick… open PAKA, tap an ice-breaker or a would you rather, and you’re good to go. Your group is talking, laughing, and engaging before they even sit down.

Now, just for a little transparency… PAKA isn’t some grand strategy play for DYM. We’re not trying to make it become the next big thing in ministry tech. It’s just a handful of tools that we wish we’d had when we were sitting in that circle, staring at the floor right along with the students, praying that someone… anyonewould say something.

If that sounds familiar, go grab it. It’s free on iOS and Android.

And if the crickets start chirping during your next small group… don’t worry. That’s just PAKA doing its job.

Blessings,

Josh Boldman | DYM & Coleader

23 Mar 2026

Building a Scope and Sequence for Your Youth Ministry

By |2026-03-06T13:03:32-08:00March 23rd, 2026|Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

Many youth ministries plan teaching one series at a time. You finish a study on prayer, then start thinking about what comes next. A few months later you realize you covered the same topic twice and skipped something important.

A scope and sequence helps prevent that drift. It simply means deciding ahead of time what you want students to learn and when they will encounter those ideas during their years in the ministry.

Schools use this approach constantly. Teachers know what concepts appear in each grade so students develop understanding step by step. Youth ministry can benefit from the same clarity.

Start With the Outcomes You Want

Before filling a calendar with series titles, step back and ask a bigger question: what should a student understand by the time they graduate from your ministry?

Write down the themes you believe matter most for a teenager’s faith. Your list will probably include ideas like:

• Understanding the gospel
• Learning how to read the Bible
• Practicing prayer
• Handling temptation
• Navigating friendships and dating
• Serving others
• Understanding the church
• Wrestling with doubt

Every ministry’s list will look a little different depending on context and theology. The important step is naming the core foundations you want every student to encounter.

If a student spends six or seven years in your ministry, those years should steadily deepen their understanding of these ideas.

Map the Years Students Are With You

Next, think about the age range your ministry serves.

Most youth ministries cover something like:

• 6th grade
• 7th grade
• 8th grade
• 9th grade
• 10th grade
• 11th grade
• 12th grade

You don’t need a completely different curriculum for every grade, but it helps to imagine how a student’s understanding might grow over time.

For example, a sixth grader might need to learn what the Bible is and how it’s organized. A senior might wrestle with how Scripture shapes decisions about career, relationships, and calling.

The topic is similar, but the depth changes.

Choose a Teaching Rhythm

Now consider how often you teach series throughout the year.

A typical youth ministry calendar might include:

• Fall teaching block
• Winter teaching block
• Spring teaching block
• Summer teaching or camp themes

Some ministries run four to six teaching series each year. Others teach longer studies that last two months or more.

Once you know roughly how many teaching slots exist in a year, you can begin placing topics intentionally rather than randomly.

Distribute the Big Themes

Take the core topics you identified earlier and spread them across the years students are in your ministry.

For example:

Middle School Years
Students often need strong foundations.

Topics might include:
• The story of the Bible
• Who Jesus is
• How to pray
• What sin and grace mean
• Building healthy friendships

Early High School Years
Students start asking harder questions.

Topics might include:
• Doubt and faith
• Identity and culture
• Sexual integrity
• Developing spiritual habits
• Serving others

Later High School Years
Students are preparing to leave home.

Topics might include:
• Faith after graduation
• Calling and vocation
• Defending faith in a skeptical culture
• Leading and discipling others
• Living as part of the church

This kind of structure ensures students encounter the major themes of faith before they graduate.

Allow Room for Repetition

A scope and sequence doesn’t mean every topic appears only once.

Teenagers benefit from revisiting important ideas several times during their student years. The difference is that each return should deepen the conversation.

Prayer with sixth graders might focus on how to talk honestly with God.

Prayer with juniors might focus on learning to pray during anxiety, suffering, or big life decisions.

The topic repeats, but the conversation matures with the students.

Use Your Calendar Realistically

Some parts of the youth ministry calendar work better for certain types of teaching.

For example:

The start of the school year often works well for community or identity topics.

January can be a good time to talk about spiritual habits.

Spring sometimes fits service, justice, or mission themes as students look outward.

Camp or retreat seasons may center around gospel clarity or surrender.

Pay attention to how students experience the year and place teaching where it fits naturally.

Write It Down and Revisit It

Your first scope and sequence does not need to be perfect. Think of it as a working map.

Create a simple document that lists:

• The years students are in your ministry
• The major themes you want covered
• Where those themes appear across the calendar

Once you have that document, you gain a helpful reference point when planning future series. Instead of starting from scratch every time, you can ask questions like:

Have our students heard teaching on prayer recently?
When did we last talk about spiritual disciplines?
Are seniors hearing anything about life after high school?

Every year or two, revisit the document. Some topics will need adjustment as your ministry changes.

The Real Goal

A scope and sequence doesn’t replace good teaching. It simply helps you aim your teaching over the long haul.

Students who grow up in your ministry should leave with a framework for following Jesus. They may not remember every series title, but they will carry the ideas that shaped them.

A little planning behind the scenes makes those years far more intentional.

19 Mar 2026

The Student Ministry Leadership Mistakes I Made My First 6 Months

By |2026-02-25T07:56:35-08:00March 19th, 2026|communication, Help Me With..., Hybrid Ministry, online youth group, Podcast, Technology, Youth Ministry Hacks, Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

I just started in a new role at my job 6 months ago.

It’s been much harder than I anticipated, and I wanted to share with you the leadership mistakes I made, so that you can avoid them for yourself!

And if you’re interested in seeing more of what the Hybrid Ministry Show has to offer, I’d love to encourage you to check out more!

16 Mar 2026

When Your Calendar is the Problem

By |2026-03-06T13:02:44-08:00March 16th, 2026|Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

Most youth pastors didn’t get into ministry because they love spreadsheets. You probably started because you care about students, you like teaching Scripture, and you enjoy building relationships. Administration can feel like the thing you have to survive so you can get back to the parts of ministry you actually enjoy.

The trouble is that weak administration quietly sabotages the parts you care about most. A poorly planned event drains volunteers. A forgotten parent email creates frustration. A last-minute schedule change stresses everyone out.

The good news is that administration is learnable. You don’t have to become a corporate project manager. A few practical habits can make your ministry calmer, clearer, and easier for everyone involved.

Start With One Weekly Planning Block

Many youth pastors operate in constant reaction mode. Texts come in. A parent asks a question. A volunteer needs a roster. You remember you never sent the retreat form. By Thursday afternoon, you feel like you’ve been putting out fires all week.

One simple change helps more than almost anything else: block one consistent planning window every week.

Pick a time when you’re least likely to be interrupted. Some pastors choose Monday morning. Others prefer Friday afternoon when the week is winding down. The exact time matters less than protecting it.

During that block, review three things:

• The next seven days of ministry
• Upcoming events in the next four to six weeks
• Communication that still needs to go out

This small rhythm keeps problems from sneaking up on you. Instead of realizing on Wednesday that you forgot to order pizza, you saw it coming on Monday.

It also lowers stress. You know there is a regular moment coming where you’ll think through the ministry instead of just reacting to it.

Write Things Down Earlier Than You Think You Need To

Youth ministry often runs on conversations. Someone mentions an idea in the hallway. A volunteer suggests a game. A student asks about a service project.

Those ideas are great. They also disappear quickly if they live only in your head.

Develop the habit of capturing things immediately. A notes app works fine. A task manager works fine. A legal pad works fine. The tool matters less than consistency.

If a volunteer mentions they’ll bring snacks next week, write it down. If a parent asks about summer camp dates, write it down. If you think of a lesson illustration while driving, capture it when you stop.

Your brain is built for thinking and creating. It’s not designed to function as a long-term storage system for a hundred tiny ministry details.

When ideas and commitments are written down, you free up mental space for the work that actually matters.

Build Repeatable Systems

Youth ministry repeats itself more than we realize. The calendar changes, but many activities come back every year.

You run retreats. You send parent emails. You recruit volunteers. You collect permission slips. You plan small groups.

Instead of reinventing the process each time, build simple checklists for recurring events.

For example, a retreat checklist might include:

• Confirm dates with the church calendar
• Reserve the location
• Recruit adult leaders
• Create registration form
• Send parent announcement
• Order transportation
• Final headcount
• Pack medical forms

The first time you write this list, it takes a little effort. After that, it becomes a tool you can reuse every year. Future planning becomes faster because the structure already exists.

Many youth pastors feel overwhelmed because every event feels like starting from scratch. Systems remove that pressure.

Communicate Earlier Than Feels Necessary

Parents appreciate clarity. Volunteers appreciate clarity even more.

One of the most common administrative mistakes in youth ministry is assuming people know what’s happening.

You might have talked about the event three weeks ago. You might have mentioned it from the stage. You might have posted it once on social media.

Families still miss things.

A helpful rule is to communicate important events at least three times:

• When the event is first announced
• A reminder about two weeks before
• A final reminder a few days before

The same approach helps volunteers. If leaders know the plan ahead of time, they walk into youth night confident and ready instead of scrambling to catch up.

Clear communication reduces stress for everyone.

Give Volunteers Simple Information

Volunteers rarely need every detail you know about the ministry. What they need is clear direction for the part they’re responsible for.

A small group leader usually wants to know:

• What passage students are discussing
• What the main point is
• How long they have for discussion
• Any announcements they should reinforce

When leaders receive that information in a simple format each week, they show up prepared. When information is scattered across texts, emails, and conversations, confusion grows quickly.

Many youth pastors send a short weekly leader email. Some create a shared document with talking points. Others use group messaging apps.

Choose one consistent method and stick with it. Consistency saves your volunteers from hunting down information.

Administration Protects Relationships

It’s easy to treat administrative work as the boring side of ministry. In reality, it protects the relational side.

When the logistics are handled well:

Parents trust the ministry.
Volunteers feel supported.
Students experience events that run smoothly.

That environment allows you to spend your energy on discipleship, conversations, and teaching instead of constant damage control.

No youth pastor will ever finish every administrative task perfectly. The goal isn’t perfection. The goal is creating enough structure that the ministry can breathe.

A well-run calendar, a few reliable systems, and clear communication go a long way. Once those pieces are in place, the work that brought you into youth ministry in the first place has more room to grow.

12 Mar 2026

Hybrid Ministry Masterclass Tools, Systems, and Real Results for Youth Pastors

By |2026-02-10T18:26:08-08:00March 12th, 2026|communication, Help Me With..., Hybrid Ministry, online youth group, Podcast, Technology, Youth Ministry Hacks, Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

This episode, quite literally, has it all!

Every strategy, every freebie, every way to implement hybrid into your ministry.

It’s horrible for me, because I’m giving away anything and everything I’ve ever created!

And if you’re interested in seeing more of what the Hybrid Ministry Show has to offer, I’d love to encourage you to check out more!

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