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14 Sep 2021

Mariners JHM Weekend in Review: Volume 7

By |2021-09-14T09:22:34-07:00September 14th, 2021|josh griffin, junior high, junior high ministry, Mariners Youth Ministry, Teaching, Teaching/Programming, Youth Ministry Ideas, Youth Ministry Resources, Youth Pastor Life|5 Comments

Weekend Teaching Series: Fact or Fiction (series kickoff, week 1 of 5)

Sermon Synopsis: This week was our summer camp reunion service, so it was packed and it was fun. We played the full summer camp video and had an absolute blast swapping stories and checking out the cast of the kid that broke his arm. Doh! We also had baptisms for the first time in 2 years, so the message this week was on baptism, why we do it and why it is important. We haven’t had any type of baptism class in a while, so I just decided to bring to the weekend to start our new series. It was incredible – 40 students got baptized this weekend. NUTS! Felt like literally years worth of baptisms in one evening … my heart is full!

Service Length: 64 minutes + baptisms

  • Key Scripture: 2 Corinthians 2:17

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: We had some FUN this week – it was our week after summer camp so pushed all in with SEQUELS weekend! We played the super popular Ancient Artifacts Volume 3, which is now become a hilarious way for leaders and students to connect over long lost technology questions, and after a round of Impossible Shots for the new students visiting for the first time, played another great game that ends a trilogy. Copycats 3 is a hilarious game where students have to try to best reenact the silly cat .gif on the screen in front of them – the crowd votes for the best one. The game isn’t QUITE as good as the originals, but still did super well with our junior highers and would highly recommend!

Student Involvement: This week we had a full compliment of student greeters, the student band and kids moderating the online chat and running streaming. They’re doing an amazing job!

Favorite Moment: This week we had our highest attendance post-covid (or maybe it’s mid-covid, who knows at this point). GREAT seeing students come back, the momentum from summer camp and summer, we’re off and running again. YEAH!

Up next: Fact or Fiction (week 2 of 6, Tammy speaking)

8 Sep 2021

Mariners JHM Weekend in Review: Volume 6

By |2021-09-06T23:52:50-07:00September 8th, 2021|josh griffin, junior high, junior high ministry, Mariners Youth Ministry, Teaching, Teaching/Programming, Youth Ministry Ideas, Youth Ministry Resources, Youth Pastor Life|2 Comments

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Weekend Teaching Series: What I Wish I Knew in Junior High (series finale, week 6 of 6)

Sermon Synopsis: This week was the conclusion of our big summer series and the week before Summer Camp. It was a great weekend, lots of momentum and excitement for the week ahead of camp. Spooner taught on her junior high experience, capping off a great series that may become and annual event. She talked about the core of who we are on the inside – using the analogy of the earth’s crust, the core, etc. She had a ton of stories about her life in junior high, and it was a solid finale for our summer series!

  • Service Length: 62 minutes
  • Key Scripture: Philippians 4:5-9

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: Say What You See was a fun game we played this week, kinda of a puzzle game that kids seemed to really like. We played it “king of the hill” style so one contestant gets a chance to answer the screen first, if they get it wrong or don’t know, the audience gets a shot. Very fun, kids loved it. Our second game we played Name That Burger, which is a super simple game where it shows a burger on the screen and you have to identify where it came. Sounds simple … but it was pretty hard. See my review on the product page for more info on how I would improve the game if you want to play it in your youth ministry, too.

Student Involvement: This week we had a full tech team of junior high students and they ran Sidekick.TV for both the Pick Me [to pick random a student who checked in for the service] and Wheel of Destiny [to select their prize]. They also ran the live stream service completely with students on camera, lights, sound and the switcher. SO proud of them!

Favorite Moment: This week was our new Huntington Beach youth pastor got to share on stage for the first time. Spooner has been working with our JHM team this summer to get the “Mariners Youth Ministry DNA” before heading to HB to lead their youth ministry. This will be the pattern moving forward as new congregations (some churches called them campuses) and Spooner CRUSHED this summer and set the bar super high for future youth ministry leaders at our new congregations!

Up next: Fact or Fiction (series kickoff, Josh speaking)

7 Sep 2021

Mariners JHM Weekend in Review: Volume 5

By |2021-09-06T19:12:05-07:00September 7th, 2021|josh griffin, junior high, junior high ministry, Mariners Youth Ministry, Teaching, Teaching/Programming, Youth Ministry Ideas, Youth Ministry Resources, Youth Pastor Life|0 Comments


Weekend Teaching Series: What I Wish I Knew in Junior High (week 5 of 6)

Sermon Synopsis: This weekend Mandy spoke about her junior high years and focused in on identity. She talked about all of the things she valued and didn’t value, and how she also felt sometimes that way about herself. She had a TON of ways to engage students, had some funny pictures of her as a junior high student (always a win). She works hard to create  lots of touch points and self-deprecating humor in her message, and could become a regular on the list of people who speak. So fun!

  • Service Length: 62 minutes
  • Key Scripture: 2 Corinthians 5:17

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: This week we played a SUPER game called Olym-Pics – where you are shown a picture and have to determine if the sport was/is really in the Olympics. They were just plausible enough to really fool a bunch of students and this was the hit game of the weekend. Perfect for the Olympic season and serious fun/chatter had by all. We also played a few quick rounds of 4 Corners Olympics Trivia which was good as well, got kids moving and in the Olympic spirit.

Student Involvement: This week we had 3 student greeters! Yeah, progress!! As always we also had a full tech team of junior high students and they ran Sidekick.TV for both the Pick Me [to pick random a student who checked in for the service] and Wheel of Destiny [to select their prize].

Favorite Moment: I’m a sucker for the Matt McGill sports instructional videos – they’re 3-4m of awkward fun – people think they were made recently and given this amazing late 90s vibe … but they’re actually FROM the late 90s and preserved perfectly. Stupid fun, and I’m here for it.

Up next: What I Wish I Knew in JH (series finale, Spooner speaking)

2 Sep 2021

Mariners JHM Weekend in Review: Volume 4

By |2021-09-01T00:21:15-07:00September 2nd, 2021|josh griffin, junior high, junior high ministry, Mariners Youth Ministry, Teaching, Teaching/Programming, Youth Ministry Ideas, Youth Ministry Resources, Youth Pastor Life|1 Comment

Weekend Teaching Series: What I Wish I Knew in Junior High (week 4 of 5)

Sermon Synopsis: This weekend we continued the What I Wish I Knew with our worship leader Bella Johnson talking about storms from her junior high years and the pressures on a young woman when she was growing up. It was a great message from her story that invited all students to realize that Jesus is with them in their boat and cares for them as the navigate the waters of their junior high years.

  • Service Length: 61 minutes
  • Key Scripture:

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: This week we played a couple really fun games First up was Summer Games trivia getting ready for the Summer Olympics and also played the inspiring Matt McGill Sports Instructional Video each week (the 3 pack is just $1 and hilarious, cheesy, nuts) into our crowd favorite … Head, Shoulders, Knees, Cup. It’s SUCH a simple game and yet so perfect. We’ll play it again at Fall Kickoff for sure!

Student Involvement: This week we had a full tech team of junior high students and they ran Sidekick.TV for both the Pick Me [to pick random a student who checked in for the service] and Wheel of Destiny [to select their prize]. I’m proud of our tech students, they’re doing a GREAT job and even started their own Instagram, too!

Favorite Moment: This weekend the church janitor revealed his next creation – a Summer Camp promo animated video! He previously made the amazing Llama Countdown video (now available on DYM as well) and it made me SO proud. He’s SO talented! I’m hoping his stuff blows up on DYM and he can support himself someday with just his amazing creativity. I loved it! Easily my favorite moment of the week.

Up next: What I Wish I Knew in JH (week 5, Mandy speaking)

31 Aug 2021

Mariners JHM Weekend in Review: Volume 3

By |2021-08-31T23:16:35-07:00August 31st, 2021|josh griffin, junior high, junior high ministry, Mariners Youth Ministry, Teaching, Teaching/Programming, Youth Ministry Ideas, Youth Ministry Resources, Youth Pastor Life|1 Comment

 

Weekend Teaching Series: What I Wish I Knew in Junior High (week 3 of 5)

Sermon Synopsis: This weekend I had my favorite guest speaker come teach at our 5 services … DYM co-founder and our youth pastor at Mariners, Doug Fields! He taught a simple statement, “What I Wish I Knew in Junior High – serving is better than sitting” and taught students about serving. He shared some great pictures from his junior high years and how serving has shaped his life. It was a great talk that ended in an application where students could fill out a response card to serve in 4-5 areas of the church. So good!

  • Service Length: 64 minutes

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: This week we used the sequel to the popular Where’s the Ball game and this was soccer edition and it crushed. Some questions are stronger than others but they’re all great and some are so unlikely they elicit a laugh. This week in the first game slot we played Where’s the Ball: Volume 2. Again a total blast – the ingenuity of youth workers never ceases to amaze me! We also tried something new in the 2nd game slot – a new DYM discussion-focused resource called Space Thoughts. I think the element got better through the course of the weekend services, but the idea wasn’t really a game with a prize, but for students to get to know each other better in circles and friendly debate some fun questions.

Student Involvement: This week we had a full tech team of junior high students and they ran Sidekick.TV (which is included in DYM’s gold membership) for both the Pick Me [to pick random a student who checked in for the service] and Wheel of Destiny [to select their prize] – we also had a couple students greeting at a few of the services, something we’re really trying to build up in the fall.

Favorite Moment: This weekend the church janitor revealed his next creation – a Summer Camp promo animated video! He previously made the amazing Llama Countdown video (now available on DYM as well) and it made me SO proud. He’s SO talented! I’m hoping his stuff blows up on DYM and he can support himself someday with just his amazing creativity. I loved it! Easily my favorite moment of the week.

Up next: What I Wish I Knew in JH (week 4, Bella speaking)

26 Aug 2021

Mariners JHM Weekend in Review: Volume 2

By |2021-08-24T00:53:35-07:00August 26th, 2021|josh griffin, junior high, junior high ministry, Mariners Youth Ministry, Teaching, Teaching/Programming, Youth Ministry Ideas, Youth Ministry Resources, Youth Pastor Life|0 Comments

Weekend Teaching Series: What I Wish I Knew in Junior High (week 2 of 5)

Sermon Synopsis: Holiday weekend! When the 4th of July happens on a Sunday … argh. Painful! But … we managed and ended up with a solid weekend. My “wish I knew” from junior high was about trust, and how we are constantly trust-building or trust-busting with our parents. Told some fun stories from my teen years and used a tall Jenga set as an example of trust being difficult to build and maintain but so simple to lose. Students easily resonated with the object lesson, and I felt like it really help carry the talk.

Service Length: 66 minutes

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: We introduced our students to a brand new game on Download Youth Ministry – Where’s the Ball?  simple game where students have to guess which ball is the real one from funny Photoshopped pictures of athletes playing various sports. It is SUCH a simple concept and yet … totally crushed. Kids loved the game, some were easier than others but helped them stay in a bit longer which is OK as well. As always we welcomed in new students with the Impossible Shot, and also played a fun game with no real answers called In My Opinion: Summer Edition from one of my good friends Todd Pearage. Kids played along, we had some watching live online as well, and they could put their answers in the chat. All in all solid program, made super easy by DYM. Not sure how I ever did youth ministry before them!

Music Playlist: Let Go, Lion and the Lamb

Favorite Moment: I had to “find my talk” – it wasn’t coming together super well but we have 5 services over the course of the weekend, so was able to kind refine it on the fly and felt like it was finally good by the 4th try. Hey, it happens! And it sure did this weekend.

Up next: What I Wish I Knew in JH (week 3, Doug speaking)

26 Aug 2021

Prepare for Next Year’s Promotion Now!

By |2021-08-26T06:57:57-07:00August 26th, 2021|Leadership, Youth Ministry Hacks, Youth Ministry Ideas|1 Comment

I don’t know when you promote your students into the next grade. It may be right before summer starts so your new students get the “full on” summer ministry experience.

It may be right before school starts so that you can have students really dive into school with their new youth group buddies.

Or you may do it somewhere in the middle.

No matter what time you start your change over, you’re probably like me and notice a big student leadership vacuum during the first few months after the promotion happens.

Maybe your senior class was SUPER involved and heavily led the worship band. Maybe your eighth graders basically ran your tech booth for the middle school ministry, but now they’re high school students and oops, no one is there to run the computer.

This year things went smoother than in years past, so I wanted to take time to think about what led to that and how we can make this magical thing where students immediately step into leadership roles happen each year (or at least give it our best effort).

Give students SPECIFIC jobs.

Katie Edwards said she wanted to make sure everyone in her ministry had a clear, specific, one page job description. I spent some time looking over ours this year. They definitely needed some re-working! 

Make sure your student leaders know EXACTLY what they are supposed to do. When should they show up? What should they do while they serve? How do they help at the end of the ministry time? What does a win look like? 

If you can answer these questions, students will know their job and be able to do it well. This is HUGE for a student who will still be with you the year AFTER you promote. Even though they leaders ahead of them are gone, they know what their role is.

Show students their value.

I really tried this last year to highlight when our students were serving. This helped not only encourage the students who were doing a great job, but also showed students who WEREN’T serving that they could. 

Do this from the stage. Do this with your emails. Show students after they serve how much you appreciate their service. Make a big deal out of it! 

If students see serving as valuable, they’ll look at it as something worth their time.

Celebrate wins. Correct misses.

Whenever something goes right, we don’t hardly celebrate it. I’m trying to change that in our ministry. I want to let students know WHAT they did well and THAT they did well. I want to make a big deal out of things going right! I haven’t been great at this in the past, but I’m working on it.

Also, I really don’t like conflict or rocking the boat. So I really haven’t been great at showing students where they could improve when they “missed” during a service opportunity. Like showing up fifteen minutes late, or not cleaning up after the event.

I want students to know that they got it right and help them when they don’t. This way they can understand that they are doing their job how it needs to be done!

So here are some questions for you as you think about NEXT YEAR’S promotion season. It’s closer than you think!

Who are your leaders now that your leaders have moved up?

Who could be developed?

How can you identify new students to take on new roles?

How can you encourage students who have stepped into the vacuum?

What else could you add?

8 Jan 2021

How to Get Momentum In Your Youth Ministry This Year

By |2021-05-18T14:13:06-07:00January 8th, 2021|Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

Josh and Doug hosted a Facebook Live this week on their top ten tips on gaining momentum in 2021. It was a really great hour-long training with some fantastic content to start your year off with forward movement!

Watch the playback or get a rundown below of the Ten Ways to Get Momentum in 2021!

If you want to jump ahead to a specific point, watch on Youtube and the timestamps are linked in the description!

 

 

1. Align With Adult Services

Could you teach a series that goes along with what the adults are doing so students and parents can have conversations about the same Bible passage or truth?

Giving parents an easy conversation starter with their students is a huge win.

2. Get Big-Picture Buy-In

Make sure volunteers and students know the “vision” or “purpose” of the church, the ministry, or the current series; and understand the why of what you’re doing!

That way you’re not just spinning wheels, but everyone knows WHY you are launching a new series or getting ready for a big event.

3. Communicate

No one knows the information in your brain as much as you. – Doug Fields.

Once you feel absolutely exhausted from talking about one thing, about half of your church has heard you. – Josh Griffin

Overcommunicate to your parents, students, and church! Think about all the information that you’ll need to give (time, place, date, forms needed, etc) and then figure out the best way to get that information out to everyone who needs it!

Quick hack: At the bottom of your emails, say “Reply to this email so I can get back to you personally!”

4. Dig Deeper

If you want different results than what you’ve gotten in the past, you’re going to have to work a little harder or do something differently.

Building momentum doesn’t start at the moment you turn the calendar; it begins when you start planning to build momentum!

For example: Have an early December Event to promote new Youth Group Series in January.

5. Combine with a Kickoff

Do your “normal stuff” but turn up the volume a bit on your first meeting of the season. Think New Year, Summer, and Back-to-School seasons. Have your normal weekly program, but add an extra element to it.

Think food (when we can do it again), free t-shirts, stickers, a party after the programming is done.

Whatever you can do to make your first event of the season more epic! Do you have a smaller group? A kick-off can be made epic by changing the place you meet, telling your students a friend is a required to attend, or add food! Can you tell we miss having food?

And then promote like crazy.

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6. Perk Attendance

Think about having a giveaway for students who show up during a certain month or season.

Josh suggested having a punch card that students keep track of. Then give stickers for coming for three weeks, a branded facemark for four weeks, and an exclusive t-shirt for coming all five weeks!

7. Incentivize New Students

Have a bag or box within reach to give to new students when they show up! Or, if you can, invite that student and their family out to lunch that Sunday and get to know the new family.

Or have students get a chance to shoot “The Impossible Shot” if they bring a friend.

8. Incentivize Volunteers

Do you train your leaders with DYM University? Why not give your leaders prizes for completing courses? If they do 101, get them a t-shirt. 201? Student ministry tumbler. If they complete the whole thing? Have them come with you (and bring your significant others) to a swanky meal! Or at least something better than Del Taco.

9. Enhance Parent Communication

How do you communicate to parents? Do you communicate enough? Think about your strategy to communicate to parents and ask how you can up your game! You can use the DYM Newsletter app, a great gem for youth workers, to easily create a sweet-looking newsletter with tons of resources.

Do you email once a month? Think about moving to twice a month or every week!

Do you tell your parents what the current teaching series is? Try sending them your weekly outline so they can talk with their students later on!

10. Make Sure You Deliver

Whatever you plan to do, make it happen!

If you make students or parents a promise, make sure you give them what you told them you were going to do!

 


 

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22 Oct 2020

Discord Youth Ministry

By |2020-10-22T11:41:40-07:00October 22nd, 2020|Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

In a season where the world shut down and went indoors, churches were forced to go online.

For many, this was a challenge; but for someone who grew up playing video games, being online came naturally.

In July 2019, I realized that my students were connected and engaged with each other in person, but throughout the week they were struggling to stay connected to positive influences. Personally, I was already a part of an online community for a few years and used it as a way to do Bible studies and connect with people around the world. I then decided to have a similar community for my students to be able to connect whenever they want, wherever they were.

Enter “Discord”: a free application providing private online communities, fully customizable to the owner.

While at first, it did not pick up very much traction, when COVID arrived, the necessity of having an online community was clear. We could do a texting service or a video-based service like Zoom – but I wanted something that was more consistent and available to them outside of just our service times.

Imagine being a student and having the option to hang out in the church youth group and see your friends whenever you wanted to. You could voice chat, video chat, share memes and jokes, celebrate birthdays, or even ask for prayer. If you had questions, you could message your pastor or leaders whenever you wanted.

Imagine as a leader, not having to take attendance because it’s automated, not having to set up or tear down from an event, not having to tell students not to say “those words” because they get censored automatically. You wouldn’t have to memorize Zoom passwords or send out links constantly. On top of that, you could have security set up to where no one can interfere with your ministry.

I think we can all agree, this would be an ideal way to do youth ministry online. And you CAN, using Discord.  If you want to know how to set it up and how to keep it safe then read through the blog posted here: https://stephenmlaw.com/f/discord-ministry-community

Stephen Law

Stephen grew up a “pastor’s kid” that challenged the status quo. He started serving in ministry 20+ years ago. 

With a Bachelor of Science in Church Ministry, his past ten years have been focused on middle school ministry at Harborside Christian Church, where he can “help students, when it matters most, become world changers.”

4 Sep 2020

Meaningful Peer to Peer Interaction

By |2020-09-04T06:56:19-07:00September 4th, 2020|Youth Ministry Ideas|0 Comments

This is an observation from a youth pastor AND dad of a Middle Schooler who is doing at-home learning due to COVID restrictions.
My girl is getting decent teacher-to-student interaction at this time, but there is little to no student-to-student interaction. This is a MAJOR LOSS for students (especially Middle School students who often have fewer digital connections with peers).
The point:
We have an opportunity to offer something uniquely different in this season.
More than ever, we should be thinking of ways to create meaningful, intentional, and redemptive peer-to-peer interactions for our students in whatever programming we have (intentional and CDC approved interactive moments in the big program, coach leaders to talk less than ever and tee up student interaction, etc.).
For us, we have the unique opportunity to do in-person programming even though schools are meeting virtually. So, “come hang with your friends” takes on a huge promotional point.
Questions:
  • In what way can you offer peer to peer interaction in your context?
  • How has the lack of peer to peer interaction affected your students?
  • Do you think this might change how you “advertise” your ministry in this season?

I’ve been fortunate to serve the first 20+ years in youth ministry! I’m in My Third Decade (check out my podcast on the DYM Podcast Network!) where I currently serve as the Student Ministry Leader at a church in Louisville, KY. Over that time I have been able to craft a plethora of experiences and resources that help students and parents in their spiritual journey, and I love that DYM has provided me the opportunity to share them with you. My wife Janelle and I have four amazing children ages 10 and under. I love the Cubs, the Colts, comic books, podcasts, and going to Disney World.
See Derry’s DYM resources here!
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