Ah, vacation—an elusive concept that often feels like mythical folklore for those in youth ministry. But guess what? Taking a genuine break isn’t just possible; it’s essential. Here’s why you shouldn’t feel guilty about switching into vacation mode and some practical tips to make sure your time away actually leaves you refreshed, not more stressed.

1. Remember, You’re Human
It’s easy to forget amidst lock-ins, retreats, and endless texting marathons that you’re human too. Burnout isn’t a badge of honor; it’s a red flag waving wildly, urging you to rest. Taking time away isn’t selfish—it’s stewardship of your energy and ministry longevity.

2. Set Clear Boundaries (And Stick to Them)
Before your vacation starts, set clear boundaries for when (and if) you’ll check in. Communicate this clearly to your team and parents. This way, everyone knows the plan, and you won’t be haunted by the ghost of “just one quick question” every five minutes.

3. Delegate Like You Mean It
Trust your team. Delegate tasks and responsibilities clearly before leaving. Empower your volunteers or coworkers with the authority they need. And here’s a secret: most will rise to the occasion. Plus, you might even come back to find a couple of hidden ministry talents uncovered.

4. Silence Those Notifications (Yes, Even That One)
This might be the hardest step, but it’s critical. Turn off email and social media notifications on your phone. Temporarily delete ministry-related apps if necessary. Trust me, the world (and your ministry) will survive without your immediate responses.

5. Plan for Refreshment, Not Perfection
Don’t pressure yourself into planning the “perfect” getaway. Sometimes, the best vacations are simple: an afternoon with a good book, a hike in nature, or a day of absolutely nothing. Prioritize rest over Instagram-worthy adventures—your mental health will thank you.

Remember, youth ministry is a marathon, not a sprint. Taking genuine, guilt-free time off is part of the race strategy. You’ll return stronger, clearer, and ready to tackle whatever wild adventures await your next ministry season.