///3 Fatal Youth Ministry Phrases

3 Fatal Youth Ministry Phrases

I was thinking about 3 phrases I’ve said to my self from time to time. The problem is that they are either destructive or self-defeating phrases that get stuck in our minds and misdirect us. They are divisive, or worst fatal to a youth ministry career and calling. Stop it now! Tell me if you can (painfully) relate to any of these, and add your own in the comments:

“I’m working harder than everyone else”
As a leader you set the pace and passion, so you should be working hard! It is your job to show the urgency and delegate ownership to everyone else. So in some ways this pity party is unwarranted, and I promise you there are plenty of people around willing to help if asked, empowered and challenged. Work hard … but multiply yourself into a workforce, too.

“My leader is terrible”
As youth workers we get the privilege in sitting in a seat beside the pastor. That can be a beautiful position of support and love, or it can be a divisive seat where we assassinate him/her for our own gain. We second-guess decisions and play devil’s advocate with others while silently and maliciously gaining support to our own vision and direction. My friends, it ought not to be this way. What would your church look like if you supported your leader, challenged and supported them? I promise you, this one alone could change everything. And thinking, “my leader is terrible” quickly leads you to the last thought, too…

“I am the savior of this place”
Of my word … how diluted is this one? Now, we would never dare to actually say this one out loud, yet we silently think it is the truth. This is going to come right before a low, I promise you, because from what I hear God humbles the proud. Fight arrogance even in the silence of your heart. You won’t last long in youth ministry if you don’t!

Those are my 3 fatal phrases … add yours in the comments now, too!


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Josh Griffin is one of the leading voices in youth ministry with over 20 years experience in the trenches, most recently as the High School Pastor at Saddleback Church. He's the co-founder of DownloadYouthMinistry.com and been in 300+ episodes of the DYM Podcast with Doug Fields. He's created more than 50 youth ministry resources and authored several books including 99 Thoughts for Small Group Leaders. Josh and his wife Angela have 4 kids, which now includes 2 teenagers of their own! Contact Josh | Speaking Requests

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