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14 Aug 2023

Starting Off Small Groups Right

By |2023-08-14T10:47:41-07:00August 14th, 2023|Small Groups|3 Comments

As the leaves start to change and the air gets crisper (at least there’s a rumor cold air is happening somewhere around here…), it’s the perfect time to kick off small groups within your youth ministry. I’m excited to share some practical tips with you that will help you create an enriching and transformative experience for your students this fall. Let’s dive in:

1. Select Clear Topics and Themes:

Imagine sitting down with your small group, ready to dive into meaningful conversations. To make that happen, choose topics and themes that genuinely resonate with your students. Think about their needs, interests, and challenges. When you address subjects that matter to them, you’ll spark engagement and encourage everyone to actively participate. 

Want to make it a double win? Get on board with your church’s vision statement and show how what you’re talking about correlates to that!

2. Recruit and Train Leaders:

Leaders are the heartbeat of your small groups. Identify individuals who have a passion for mentoring and guiding others. These leaders don’t have to be experts; they just need a heart that cares. Equip them with training, resources, and ongoing support. When leaders feel confident and well-prepared, their guidance will inspire great discussions and growth.

Check out some of the resources down below for more info!

3. Define Group Guidelines:

Creating a safe and open space is huge for effective small groups. Sit down with your leaders and craft clear group guidelines together. Address behaviors, confidentiality, and mutual respect. These guidelines set the tone for an environment where students feel comfortable sharing their thoughts, questions, and struggles.

Make sure students are on board with these guidelines and are willing to participate with these in mind!

4. Incorporate Prayer and Worship:

Picture your small group gathering around in a circle, connecting not only with each other but also with Jesus. Start or end each session with prayer and worship. It deepens the spiritual experience, reminding everyone that they’re part of something bigger than themselves. This practice also fosters unity and encourages students to explore their faith journey together.

Remind students they aren’t just here for fellowship! They’re here to experience the life changing work of God!

5. Celebrate Milestones:

We all love celebrating victories, right? Well, your small groups should be no different. Recognize and celebrate milestones—whether it’s someone’s spiritual breakthrough, a goal achieved, or personal challenges overcome. These celebrations create a sense of accomplishment and belonging, making your small group feel like a tight-knit community.

As you embark on this exciting journey of fall small groups, remember that you’re not just organizing meetings; you’re fostering a space for growth, connection, and transformation. Keep these tips close as you create a nurturing environment for your students.

Need some resources to get your fall in full swing? Check these awesome Co-Leader resources out!

29 Aug 2022

Setting Up Small Groups to Win!

By |2022-09-02T07:00:54-07:00August 29th, 2022|Small Groups, Uncategorized, Youth Ministry Hacks, Youth Ministry Ideas|48 Comments

It’s the kick-off season for ministry! You’ve spent the summer assembling your team, ensuring each group has the right leader, and now it’s time to get these leaders with their new students. Here are some quick tips for making sure your leaders have what they need to be the best small group leaders they can be!

Get Leaders Curriculum Quickly!

If the main thing you want leaders to do is telling their students the truths about Jesus, then make sure they have the curriculum in their hands as soon as possible!

Remember that you have recruited teachers and engineers and stay-at-home moms, and other busy adults. Make sure you aren’t getting them things at the last minute so that they can be totally prepared when they walk into a small group!

Communication is Key!

Have a rhythm of communicating with your small group leaders. Whether that means you email them once a week or have an ongoing text message thread, make sure your leaders know you are thinking about them and are available!

Practical Tips help leaders win!

It may be old hat to you, but All of the tips and tricks that you have learned over the years as a youth pastor are golden nuggets to share with your small group leaders!

Make a list of five or seven and send them out one at a time in your regular communication. Think of small bite-size tips like “Make a note on your phone about each student, where they go to school, and their favorite candy.”

Putting practical tips in your volunteers’ hands can help them win!

Small Group Your Small Group Leaders!

We want our small group leaders to be in the lives of their students. We want them to take them out for coffee and to go to their sporting events, and text them throughout the week to let them know they are praying for them.

What if you did that for your small group leaders? What if you invited them out to coffee regularly and sent them a text every so often just to let them know that you are grateful they were on the team and that you are praying for them specifically?

If you treat your volunteers like your own personal small group, they will see what it’s like to lead. Your example will show them how they can in turn minister to their own students. And the biggest win of all is your small group leaders feel loved and ministered to!

What else?

If you were going to add one more tip to this list, what would it be? How would you help your small group leaders win? We’re always looking for great ideas!

2 Sep 2020

Small Groups In Person, Online, and Hybrid

By |2020-09-02T09:36:38-07:00September 2nd, 2020|Youth Ministry Ideas|1 Comment

If you would have told me in January 2020 that I would be finding ways for discipleship groups to have both in-person and online hybrid meetings, I would have laughed in your face.  

Fast forward to today and this is exactly what we are doing. direct over forty groups that range from ten people to a hundred people in each group. These groups have been meeting online each week during the pandemic and we saw some great success and flexibility during this time. Zoom gatherings were always meant to be temporary, and last Sunday we returned to our campus. Before our return, I sent a survey to group leaders asking what they would like to do moving forward and gave them three options. 

  1. Online Only 
  2. In-Person Only 
  3. Hybrid of In-Person and Online 

Overwhelmingly, 95% of our groups wanted to do the hybrid option. The opportunity was in front of me to figure out how we were going to pull this off and create a great experience for those in person and those online. My desire was to keep groups together the best we can because relationships were built and community was already established.  

Over the past month, I have tested every type of device and technology at my disposal. I know more about Zoom than many people who actually work for the company. I have troubleshot different styles of microphones, web cameras, and displays. I have used laptops, both PC and Mac. I have tried every tablet and phone to find the best configurations. 

In the same way, I have researched countless articles and videos on how to have the best hybrid meetings. I have found that secular companies have been doing this for years and they have some really great tools at their disposal.  

Regardless of the challenge ahead, the driving question to answer was, how can we have authentic Spirit led community with people in person and at home? I have compiled a few things I have learned into 5 best practices for in-person and online hybrid groups.

1. Best Technology Setup

When it comes to technology, each group has found what works best for them. Some are using an iPhone set up in the corner of the room to get a wide shot of everyone and at the same time using a laptop, also connected to zoom, showing only the teacher. Other groups are bringing in a full conference center set up to run their meetings like a state-of-the-art office building.  

The best setup we found to work that was simple, easy to duplicate, and effective is one iPad on a stand connected to a TV using an HDMI to Lightning adapter. (See Picture) Of all the devices we tested, the iPad had the best built-in microphone to pick up voices in the room for those online to hear.  

Make sure you test your Wi-Fi.  We pressure tested the bandwidth in our building to accommodate so many users at the same time. We ended up putting the devices used to connect to zoom on a separate network that was not public. Even after testing, we still had a few places with issues. It was bound to happen but were working with our IT folks to make sure we can handle the load. 

2. Those in person must be intentional. 

Those online are already feeling left out because they are not in the same room. One thing I took note of from a business article was that we must be diligent to engage those on the screens at home. I encouraged groups to set aside two times during the meeting to specifically engage and interact with those at home. The first was during prayer time. Make sure you call them by name and let them be known and seen. The second time was at the end of the meeting. Engage the zoom callers for any last-minute comments. The hybrid meeting can easily leave the online folks even more isolated; we must be very intentional in not allowing this to happen.  

3. Teachers can teach from home.

We had a few groups where the teachers wanted to stay online and teach from home. I was concerned with the interaction and how this was going to play out. To my surprise, this worked well. We had several groups where someone from at home led parts of the group meeting. Make sure if you use zoom to switch the presenter view so that that person can be seen fully on the larger screens. I think the only person that struggled with the online teaching was the teacher because they were in a room by themselves and teaching to a screen. People get it and are flexible now more than ever. 

4. Have a host or co-host at home.

As we were thinking through what could go wrong, it became clear that it would be hard for the leaders in the class to teach and host the zoom meeting at the same time. Having someone online be host allows for that person to mute or unmute and control the chat feature. We also had some groups have a designated person in the class bring a separate device and host. Either way, the class leaders do not need to be zoom leaders. 

5. Presentation Slides

Many of our classes use PowerPoint slides as they teach each week. We found that the best experience for everyone is for the teacher to log in to the zoom and use the screen share feature to share his/her slides. Doing it this way allowed for the slides to be seen by those online and by those looking at the TVs or projectors in the class. It was a simple solution that we stumbled upon. This was very cool to watch in person.  

We are still learning and will continue to figure out the best way to lead our groups in this tough season. 

Bobby is a Discipleship Pastor in Katy, TX. He loves pouring into the next generation and their parents to build lifelong followers of Jesus.

He loves his wife and three blue eyed kids, great BBQ and the outdoors.

Check out his DYM resources here!

3 Nov 2016

College Ministry Volunteer Training

By |2017-12-20T15:25:56-08:00November 3rd, 2016|Leadership, Uncategorized|0 Comments

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There aren’t a ton of college ministry resources out there right now. The great part about that means is that there is so much room to explore and innovate! The bad part is that is can be tough to start from scratch! That was the crossroads we came to when we re-wrote our entire Life Group leader training. Luckily, we had the chance to borrow some ideas from some brilliant authors and my wise friend, Jessica Sanchez!

I thought I’d save you guys some of our same trouble and post a digital copy of our training we did this year.

If you have a college ministry volunteer training handbook that you are proud of, share it!

You can download the digital volunteer handbook here.

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