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Saddleback HSM Weekend in Review: Volume 221

Posted by Colton Harker

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Weekend Teaching Series: A Piece of My Mind (2 of 4)

Sermon in a Sentence: 4 Characteristics of Biblical Community

Service Length: 83 minutes

Understandable Message: This weekend Justin and I joined forces to talk about what it means to have Christ-centered friendships and communities. The 4 points we chose to communicate Biblical community were that it is a place of safety, rest, accountability, and a place to be pushed to know and express Christ. We wanted students to walk away knowing that our message wasn’t just an invitation into a Biblical community, but a challenge to be an active member of one. For example, if you want a safe person to talk to, you need to be a safe person to talk to as well.

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: This weekend we played a game called Tweetable Tweets. In the game, we have a tweet from a celebrity with the ending blacked out and we gave the students three choices of what it could be. It was so dang fun! Since it was our summer intern's last weekend, we had him run it and he did so well! Like last week, we did more prize videos (similar to those in “Wheel of Fortune”). It is a really fun bit that landed with the students. This week we ended with the “Mystery Box.” It could have had an iTunes card or a pack of C-Batteries. Only one way to find out what is inside…

Music Playlist: Lift Him Up, Divine and Holy, All I Am, and God I Look to You

Favorite Moment: It was 2 of our summer interns' last weekend. It was awesome to see what great youth pastors they have become in such a short amount of time. Both of them did big things this summer and left an impact in students’ lives and on our ministry. It will be tough to say goodbye!

Up next: A Piece of My Mind (week 3 of 4)

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, Sermon Ideas, saddleback hsm, Micah Schuster, Justin Knowles, Weekend in Review, weekend services, Abby Garcia

DYM Scholarship Fund Growing

Posted by Josh Griffin

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What an awesome week - the past week alone we've had quite a few scholarships purchased for other youth ministries around the country/world. Made me want to write this quick post inviting you to either a) donate too! or b) apply for a scholarship to DYM resources. We're SO excited at the response to this idea - beyond excited to bless churches and ministries that could use it! Yeah!

JG

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, youth ministry scholarships, recommended youth ministry resources, scholarships

Small Groups: 3 Connections Students Need To Make

Posted by Justin Knowles

When it comes to small groups, I want connections to happen. Small group is all about connections. It is the easiest way in our ministry to get connected to a group of people really, really quickly. Our goal is to push every student into a group so they can make connections. What we hope are life-changing connections. There are times where students (if we are honest, ourselves too) tend to draw away into isolation. We know that God created us to be in community. We were made to make connections. This is where groups come in.

Here are 3 connections I hope our students make during the year:

Connections inside the group- Group is like a family. There is not one person speaking and all the rest learning, but everyone in the group is open and honest about speaking up what is going on in their life and the whole group learns and interacts with each other. They open up about their lives, struggles and triumphs. They give and receive together. When the group is not meeting, students find themselves wondering about how their friends in the group are doing and end up praying for them.

We take a break of small groups over the summer and I was talking to some of my small group boys and they were saying how much they missed the small group setting and cant wait to see all the guys at one time again. It’s a family. It’s a huge connection to make.

Connections with people outside the group- As students grow more connected and together within the group, it becomes a way of life. The group requires it. Experiencing relationships within a healthy group gives the students a model to relate to their friends and family. They become more relationally mature. Usually what is modeled within the group then translate outside of the group into their normal lives.

I have a guy who joined actually started to live in the way all talk about in the group and he himself says that people ask him all of the time what happened to him. That he is such a joy to be around and there is something different about him. It’s Jesus. A healthy group will spark the group to act in the way Jesus calls us to live outside the walls of the group and they will connect better with people outside of the group.

A closer connection with God- As students start to connect with people in their group and then with more people outside their group, there will be a natural connection with God. As strong relationships and connectedness develop with people and through their lives with other people, students start to see how God is actively moving in their lives. As friendships grow together, their faith grows together. This is the ultimate goal. As they experience trust and openness within the group they fill find that God is more real, personal and accessible more than ever.

What are ways in which we as student pastors can make sure these connections happen?

 

 

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, inside, Small Groups, student ministry, with God, connections, outside, youth ministry

August is All About the Bullpen in Our Youth Group

Posted by Josh Griffin

I'm not teaching the entire month of August in our youth ministry. Crazy, right? Here's why:

I'm saving myself for the key times in our ministry
I am not an overflowing, limitless supply of energy and passion. I do run at high levels of both of those things - but only because I take time to stop and be refreshed. We just got back from a short vacation with friends and are about to do a little family road trip, too. I need to be gone and off so I can be even been when I'm here and on.

I want to develop other teaching voices
One of the most exciting parts about me NOT speaking is to give someone else the opportunity TO speak. Too many youth workers hold onto their platforms with white knuckles and are paranoid that losing the platform will cost them their position. Giving yourself a break gives you a chance to cheer them on from the front row and coach potential speakers to improve their serve.

Students learn differently
Two people can say the exact same thing and the impact on teenagers can be completely different. Styles matter, different ages and genders matter. Different perspectives will help your students learn and grow far beyond your perspective, too.

How can you adjust your plan to give others a chance to speak?

JG

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, teaching, speaking, learning styles, Speaking To Teenagers, different voices, sermon preparation

Lone Rangers and the Lack of Accountability

Posted by Josh Griffin

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I didn't know of Matt Pitt before his name hit the news this week - he was a relatively high profile youth worker/evangelist in the South who was arrested this week for impersonating a police officer. While the details of this sensational story are hard to resist, I found several excerpts of this All Alabama article stunning to read as a warning about some of the pitfalls in our profession. Lots of clarity here for each of us to consider in our own ministry lives. Not going to give it a lot of commentary, I think it kind of speaks for itself:

Another ex-board member who asked not to be named said of Pitt and his closest advisers, "They took their eyes off Jesus. I believe there were great possibilities. I believe people were helped. I never looked at Matt as a rock star. I saw an opportunity to win the lost. In the beginning Jesus was foremost... God is not going to be mocked."Dawson regrets that Pitt didn't have more guidance for his ministry.

[..]

"We need to make sure we have accountability in our lives," Dawson said. "No one's a Lone Ranger."

Dawson said he wished he could have helped Pitt. "I personally tried to reach out to him, and I couldn't get any response," Dawson said. "You have to be humble. You have to be accountable. In order to be accountable, you have to want to be accountable. We want it to be a microwave, but in spiritual growth it has to simmer awhile. No one should be smiling. We should all be brokenhearted."

[..]

Dawson said he hopes that Pitt can be restored as a person, if his platform for ministry is not. "This is a tragedy and we shouldn't throw stones," Dawson said. "There are millions of stars in the sky and the one that gets attention is the falling one."

JG

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, ragedy, advisors, leadership, fall from grace, accountable, lone ranger, ministry failures, removed from ministry, accountability, matt pitt

Steve Argue on Starting an Intern Ministry

Posted by Josh Griffin

Thought this was a solid video from YS about internships - especially great if you're considering starting an intern program in your youth ministry. If you don't have a great resource to help get this started at you church, check out this best-selling tool as well!

JG

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, interns, steve argue, leadership, Youth Specialties, Seth Bartlette, ys idea lab, youth ministry internships, delegation, summer interns

HSM's Teaching Calendar: Fall 2013

Posted by Josh Griffin

Here are the topics and series we're covering in our high school ministry in the coming months. How's your teaching calendar coming for the fall and winter? Some of these will become series here on DYM, and if you're looking for a few teaching series you can check them out right here, too.

September
Worship Together Weekend
Go (fall kickoff weekend, the 3 times Jesus said "go")Go
Go

October
Worship Together Weekend
For the Win (3 winning quality character traits)
For the Win
For the Win

November
Worship Together Weekend
Fact or Fiction? (apologetics series)
Fact or Fiction?
Fact or Fiction?
Armed and Dangerous (1-off on the armor of God)

December
Worship Together Weekend
Dunked (1-off on baptism)
Christmas Family Services (week 1)
New Year Family Services (week 2)

JG

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, for the win, teaching calendar, saddleback church, baptism, saddleback hsm, #ftw, worship together weekend, calendar, high school ministry, GO

New Resource Tuesday: What? and The Call

Posted by Josh Griffin

Every Tuesday Download Youth Ministry releases several new resources into our ever-expanding collection of youth ministry tools. Up this week is a couple teaching series for you to consider as you plan the calendar this year!

QUESTIONS: Students can handle difficult theological issues. This 5-week series raises the bar and doesn’t look for easy answers to difficult questions. Full assurance of faith leads to spiritual maturity and this series helps students have a full grasp of some of the most challenging questions to Christianity.

THE CALL: This 3-week series talks about how there is no redo in life. Just one chance to get it right the way God intended for each of our lives. Unless our life is embedded in the mission of God, we miss our purpose and miniscule opportunity to align with God’s plan for eternity. God has uniquely called each of us to play a specific part in this world and for His Kingdom. This series gives principles for recognizing our place in history under the leadership of God’s call on our life.

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, recommended youth ministry resources, youth ministry resources, the call, matt lawson, questioning your faith, questions, doubt

The Benefits of a Guys-Only Summer Trip

Posted by Josh Griffin

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I'm sitting in a Starbucks fresh off the church van from an amazing week up in the mountains with a bunch of teenage guys. It was absolutely incredible, we rented a huge lodge up in the woods and on the lake - in fact it was Angela Landsbury's old lake house that we discovered online. It even had it's own 10-seat movie theater!

We played some amazing rec games outside and in the lake, had tons of fun ranging from all-u-can-meat dinner and Halo tournaments over system linked Xboxes scattered through the downstairs. But the biggest win, the reason we even do the trip, is the life-changing conversations and relationships that are built over those 3 days. The conversations late at night with the kid who is on the outside of faith, church or friends and looking in. The focused challenge for that student who is at everything but is still an attender and nothing more. The comfort for the student who found on on the trip his parents marriage was falling apart or the student who's uncle was involved in a heart-breaking situation just a week ago.

We had fun ... let's be honest it was all guys so things got crazy... and God used it to significantly shape some young men for His Kingdom. Love, love, love it. Now you'll have to excuse me ... I need to go take a shower!

JG

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, relationships, youth group trips, big bear, guys trip, relational ministry, youth pastor life, angela landsbury, all you can meat

6 Rolls Of a Small Group Leader

Posted by Justin Knowles

Small group leaders have huge roles in students lives. It is always very important to make sure clear rolls are laid out and what is expected of all of our leaders when it comes to leading a small group. This post is an excerpt from our leader manual we give to our leaders at the beginning of our year:

As a Life Group Leader you are ...

1. ...a Spiritual Leader

  • WALK WITH GOD: Active in your faith & a growing believer
  • IN COMMUNITY YOURSELF: Pursuing healthy, godly friendships & relationships in your life
  • FAITHFUL: Attend a regular church service
  • MODEL: Actively pursuing accountability in your life

2. ...a Youth Pastor

  • You are responsible for the spiritual guidance of your group!
  • Know WHO your students are – their name is their most valuable asset.
  • Know WHERE they are struggling – listen and get into their world.
  • Know WHAT truth they need to hear – discern and pray for God’s leading.
  • Know WHEN they need to be challenged – look for situations and opportunities to influence.
  • Know WHY someone missed life group, and follow up – be involved, care.

3. ...a Member of the HSM Team

  • Committed to HSM values & vision
  • Supportive of HSM leadership
  • Marketing HSM events and program.
  • Represent our entire ministry to parents and members

4. ...Administrative

  • Good Communication is key with parents, students and host homes
  • Weekly check-in with HSM staff through ChurchTeams.com
  • Create tools such as a calendar, weekly e-mail, etc. to keep in touch with your group
  • Develop detailed plans for small group outings/functions
  • Read the HSM weekly e-mail and the HSM blog (www.highschoolministry.com) for updates on the ministry

5. ...the Facilitator and Teacher

  • Prepare and teach the study in your small group
  • Provide opportunities for students to dive into God’s Word
  • Challenge students to take the next spiritual step
  • Allow students to talk, share and lead discussion

6. ...Relationally-Minded

  • Be an encourager
  • Follow-up when students are missing
  • Phone calls, letters, e-mails
  • Spend outside time with your students
  • Do group outings to build community in your group
  • Remember their birthday, their big test, their sports debut, their prom, etc.

Topics: Youth Ministry Posts, leaders, manual, small group leaders, Small Groups, student ministry, 6 rolls, youth ministry, small group leadership

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Josh is the High School Pastor at Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, CA. He’s the co- founder of DYM and is the father of 4 who speaks a little, writes a little, Twitters a bit, and blogs a lot.

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