GIVEAWAY: Chris Tomlin's Love Ran Red

Posted by Josh Griffin


Want to get Chris Tomlin's new upcoming album Love Ran Red? It isn't in store for another 2 weeks, but you can get your hands on it right away with DYM's giveaway here on the site. Just leave a comment on this post and we'll pick 3 winners over the weekend. Enter now, and you can preorder it here, too!


2 Ways To Guarantee Success in Youth Ministry

Posted by Josh Griffin

I like guarantees. I’ve got nothing to lose! And a guarantee of success? Total win. When I reflect on 20+ years of youth ministry experience and counting I think I can pinpoint two areas in which all success in any ministry points to. And crazy enough, they’re found in the Bible too!

In every event, in every conversation, every camp, every sermon, in every service we can look at the two greatest commandments that we find in Mark 12. Ready for them?

Love God. Love others. Any ministry success we will ever have will come back to these two things. Here’s what we need to do: 

If we are trying to help student love God themselves, loving God better be something we as youth workers should be doing in our own lives. We know that we do not have the power to change anybody. Only the Lord has this power. You are only as effective in ministry as you are allowing God to continually transform your life. When we are leading by example in our quiet times, our prayer time, our worship, and life styles by making it a daily effort to love our God… it shows. When we are in touch with God, it shows up in our ministry, in our relationships, and in our conversations with students across the board. When we are loving God, and teaching students how to love God, ministry is a success. 

Events are great. Services are always fun. Camps are incredible. But relationships rule all. In everything we do the goal should be relationships. This is how teenagers, volunteers, and co-workers know that God is working through you and it’s by how you love and interact with them. An event might be great, but 99% of the time a student will come back because of a loving conversation with a staff member or volunteer. Loving is contagious. When we are loving on our volunteers and students, they naturally will go out and repeat the process to those around them. Our ministry wants to be known for loving others well.

That’s it! That’s how you succeed in ministry. Success doesn’t mean a huge burst in attendance or even changed lives. Success is being faithful to the callings on Jesus to love God and love others. Focus on those two things and success is guaranteed!


Jesus Loves Me by Chris Tomlin

Posted by Josh Griffin

I'm excited to pick up the new Chris Tomlin album landing next Tuesday - here's his first single called Jesus Loves Me. Look for an album giveaway from DYM tomorrow, too! You can preorder the album here.


My Secret Life: I'm A Cat Intro Video

Posted by Justin Knowles


For some odd reason our team has been on a cat-kick. Seems like everything we have been doing for fun involves something from the feline nature. I'm okay with it because students seem to be loving it. To play off of this, we made the above video that went over really well.

To continue it even more, we will be playing the new game this week from DYM called "Fluffy's Revenge" all about cat trivia. Here is the description:

Did you know that cats can make the same noise that the Predator makes when hunting? Another fun fact: if you were drowning, a cat would probably pour a bottle of water on top of you to speed up the process!

Fluffy's Revenge is a game of weird cat trivia. If you win, you will be embraced into a herd of cats and showered with lonely people glitter (cat hair). Decide for the loser their punishment, whether it be eating a can of cat food, or bobbing for tootsie rolls in kitty litter. 

Many will play… but only few will escape Fluffy's Revenge...


Justin Knowles


3 Youth Ministry Reminders for Today

Posted by Josh Griffin

Been thinking about this subject personally a little on and off, it came to a head in a conversation with my wife last night. Here are 3 “simple” reminders us as youth workers need to remember every day:

God is doing a work in your ministry. Why He’s chosen you and I in this time and place is His to know. You have less to do with the success of your ministry than you probably think. Be faithful and work hard, but know that it is God that brings in the increase and it is all about Him. When you start to think you’re something, you’ve taken a step backward.

It’s not about numbers. Success in youth ministry is about more than numbers. Some well-meaning people around you might thing otherwise, but they’re wrong. You can tell them that. Good youth ministry is what matters most – caring relational youth workers loving students and pointing them to Jesus.

It’s not about arriving. I’m afraid too often we think that someday we’ll arrive and we will … when we arrive in Heaven. Until then, be a learner and a humble servant of God.



Posted by Doug Fields


Where did you grow up? Detroit, MI… but not actually Detroit, more of the suburbs outside of Detroit.

Tell us about your church: name, location, website.  Faith Lutheran, Troy, MI… www.faithtroy.org.  And my own website is www.rjgrune.com.

What’s a nick name you’ve been given…but you hate. Why?   I had being called “buddy.”  I take it as an insult; I might call kids “buddy,” but I don’t like it for myself. 

What’s your favorite TV show from the 80’s? (If you are too young to remember the 80’s, pick A.L.F.)  I do actually remember A.L.F..

Computer or TV? Computer.

How old were you when you first felt called to ministry?  Senior in High School when I started volunteering with the Middle School Ministry. 

Would you rather kick a puppy or make a baby cry?  Kick a puppy.  I only like living things with souls. 

What’s a recent EPIC youth ministry mistake?  When a girl came out of the bathroom I jokingly pretended it stunk… apparently it was that time of the month and she was really embarrassed. 

Have you ever left a kid on an event/camp/retreat/missions trip/etc.? Have you ever wanted to?  No.  And absolutely, yes. 

What do you enjoy doing outside of youth ministry?   Family stuff, beer, and fantasy football. 

Are you a good dancer?  No. 

What color shoes are you wearing?  Gray converse. 

What’s the worst injury that’s happened on one of your event/camp/retreat/missions trip/etc.?  Nothing crazy, just broken bones. 

What’s your position on infant baptism? Just kidding, nobody cares.   Just what the Bible teaches… (note: this is sarcastic since that’s what we all think about our positions)

On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you hate ALL NIGHTERS? (1 = stab me in the eye and 10 = stab me in the eye with a spoon)   With a spoon?  10 because I think that is the worst.  We don’t ever do them. 

How good are you at keeping receipts? Does your church administrator love or hate you?   Awful at it. I wish all receipts were digital.  What would you do if you could be invisible for one day?  If I told you I would have to kill you. 

Mac or PC?   Mac. 

What is one of your irrational fears?  Squirrels. 

What is your favorite lunch meat?  Salami. 

AWesome! You can check out RJ's resources right here in the DYM Store


POLL: The Ups and Downs of Youth Ministry Attendance

Posted by Josh Griffin

Right now we're getting hit pretty hard in attendance in our youth groups because of back-to-back homecomings. Our services are on Saturday nights and that is when all of the schools host their big events/dance so we're in the down season right after a huge back to school month. Made me think to ask in this week's poll about the ups anddowns of youth groups attendance. Vote now!


You Groups, Apologetics and Young Atheists

Posted by Josh Griffin

CrossMap had a great post on young atheists and youth ministry that got me thinking this week - thought I would grab a clip of it here and send you there if you want to do the rest.

Taunton's findings are counter-intuitive. Much of what passes for youth ministry these days is driven by a morbid fear of boring our young charges. As a result, a lot of time is spent trying to devise ways to entertain them. The rest of the time is spent worrying about whether the Christian message will turn kids off.
But as Taunton found, young people, like the not-so-young, respect people with conviction-provided they know what they're talking about. Taunton talks about his experiences with the late Christopher Hitchens, who, in their debates, refrained from attacking him. When asked why, Hitchens replied, "Because you believe it." I don't know what that says about Hitchens' other Christian debate partners, but it is a potent reminder that playing down the truth claims of the Christian faith doesn't work.
People don't believe those they don't respect. Here's something that one of the students told Larry Taunton; he said, "Christianity is something that if youreally believed it, it would change your life and you would want to change [the lives] of others. I haven't seen too much of that."
Folks, that's pretty sobering. This puts the ball in our court. Are we living lives that show our children that we actually believe what we say we believe? And here's another question-do we actually believe it? I have to say, as a parent I'm taking this very seriously.


The 2 Killers Of Servant Leadership

Posted by Justin Knowles

This past weekend we had a leadership meeting with our college ministry leaders and we walked through what it looked like to be a servant leader by looking at the life of Jesus, the greatest leader of them all. We all know servant leadership has been modeled to us by Jesus. This is why He was so effective. As leaders of ministries and teams of volunteers, we need to be teaching servant leadership and what that means. I feel when we grasp this we will be able to break through whatever glass ceiling we are facing.

There are two things we need to watch out for in us and in our leaders that will kill any good that servant leadership brings:

Entitlement - the feeling or belief that you deserve to be given something (such as special privileges) will kill anything that breathes servant leadership. Weed this out of your leadership team and your own leadership style. It’s when the thoughts of, “I deserve this position” or “The church owes me this” is when we will find ourselves wondering what happened to our leadership.

Laziness - not liking to work hard or to be active. I have seen it all over Facebook. Lack of planning and last minute asks for help for a game, graphic, sermon whatever because we were too lazy to plan ahead and actually be prepared. Servant leadership is not lazy, it takes work but it’s most effective.

How do you combat these things? Jesus did both these things:

Lead with Humility- the quality or condition of being humble; modest opinion or estimate of one's own importance, or rank. Jesus was the master of this. We need to learn how to master this as well. The opposite of entitlement is humility.

Matthew 20:28 - For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.

Leading by Example – Again, Jesus was the master at his. We as leaders have the ability to demand but servant leaders are motivated by love and educate by example. We need lead out in doing what we want to see. The opposite of laziness is leading the way and doing what we want our leaders to be doing, not just telling them what to do.

John 13:14-15 - And since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you.

Justin Knowles 


Topics: leadership, servant leadership, student ministry space

GUEST POST: Relevant Postmodern Communication with Teenagers

Posted by Josh Griffin

Postmodernism:  1) a reaction to the assumed certainty of scientific, or objective, efforts to explain reality.

In other words, instead of a “large umbrella” under which we all understand reality, postmodernism asserts the need for millions of individual “umbrellas” by which individuals understand reality.  It is a rejection of the meta-narrative.  

The sacrifice of the objective for the subjective, of the understanding of truth, implies that there is also a fracturing of how that truth is communicated.  Instead of students receiving information one way, they engage best by a variety, or a “gestalt”.  

Gestalt - a German word that is fun to say.  It also means “an organized whole that is perceived as more than the sum of its parts.”  In communication with teenagers, we must utilize a variety of mediums in which to communicate. 

Your Media Gestalt

Social Media
If you are older or are not tech-savvy, this can feel intimidating. Better yet, the multiplicity of social media options are overwhelming. However, these tools are vitally important. I encourage you to look at your town as a mission field.  How are you going to reach them?  What language do they speak? The minute you use these tools, you are embodying Marshall McLuhan’s tried and true maxim of mass communications: “the medium is the message”.  Your very presence in these realms of communication immediately validates you in the eyes of teenagers.  Don’t underestimate the power of relevancy!  This is the current language teenagers speak.
Finding a cheap texting service is a direct (and relevant) way to communicate with your desired audience.  If your church cannot afford a texting service, sharing your cell phone number (and vice versa) is just as good, and more personal. (editor's note - be sure to check out DYM Text, free texting for DYM members
Physical Mail
As Doug Fields has correctly reiterated over the years, never underestimate the power of a personal postcard, letter, or birthday card.  As electronic communication continues to expand, physical mail still retains the quality of “special”, mainly because teenagers today get so few real letters in the mail.  Interestingly, it isn’t considered arcane or archaic just yet.  Huzzah! Now let’s pray the Postal Service doesn’t go bankrupt.
The history of Christian t-shirts is a long and tragic one, a road fraught with “This Blood’s For You” and “The Lord’s Gym”.  If and when you make youth group t-shirts, ensure the design, cut of the shirt, quality of the material and color scheme are such that your youth will want to wear it other places than just a “Youth Sunday”. Better yet, have a teenager help design it! 
Teenagers today check email more often than you would think.  We send a weekly email to parents and students each week.
Your Church Phone
Does a real person answer your church phone (better) as opposed to an automated machine?  Do you return phone calls or emails quickly?  Relevant communication goes both ways. Failure in this regard leads to weakened trust with those you are called to serve.

Our broad communications should have the goal of a teenager seeing, and that seeing leading to doing, and that doing to understanding.  More than ever, our mission field requires us to communicate in a broad and yet focused way, all with the goal of leading them to active discipleship.

What do you think?  What communication tools have you used to good success?  

Clark Chilton is a Student Ministries Pastor in Clemmons, NC.

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Jen-BradburyBlogging about youth culture and current events. Dr. Walt Mueller is the founder and President of the Center for Parent/Youth Understanding, a non-profit organization serving schools, churches, and community organizations across the U.S, Canada, and worldwide in their efforts to strengthen families.

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