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You Own the Weekend Youth Group Series Kickoff Learnings

Posted by Josh Griffin

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We're in our 7th year of the amazing students-do-everything youth group teaching series You Own the Weekend. It was a huge success! My friend Jessica was the adult mentor for students this past week and wrote up some of her learnings for the other adult mentors for the rest of the 7 weeks in the series. I thought they were helpful points for anyone empowerng students in ministry, especially if you are considering doing a You Own the Weeend of your own. Check out the resource right here to help guide you through it!

Trabuco Owns the Weekend was a great experience and we had such a wonderful time coaching the students who we a part of it! We also learned a few things through this specific year and group of students that we’d like to share with you…
#1 Communicate expectations often and clearly.
When you think you’ve been clear about expectations, deadlines and requirements, say them one more time – you can never over communicate with students because they have a lot on their plates and forget things you’ve told them.
#2 Invest most of your coaching time on the sermon prep.
We spent countless hours re-reading/editing sermon drafts and meeting (face to face) with our speakers as they developed their message. It was a lot of work but we really think it payed off because the Gospel was clearly communicated and the students walked if feeling extremely confident! *this doesn’t mean you don’t invest in other areas, but truly, the sermon is the area students are least experienced in and it’s the key element of the weekend for visitors coming to faith in Christ.
#3 Work really hard on your actual weekend so that it’s effortless for everone else.
You have to be the one to be on top of things on your actual YOTW weekend. Of course, you are only one person, which means you will need help (someone helped us teach a student where the kitchen was so they could make lemonade, someone picked food up for us during Comedy Sportz, etc) - but ultimately you should be aware of everything and oversee the program elements. Lean into the team in small ways but don’t assume anyone else is taking care of things that are you responsibility – if you need help, ask, but the help should be minimal because you are aware and well prepared for your weekend!
#4 Be your students’ #1 fan!
Cheer them on, celebrate them every step of the way and help them constantly. Be positive on their weekend, even when things don’t work out the way they hoped they would, remind them (and yourself) to: HAVE FUN!

This is my favorite ... and our very best series of the year!

JG

Saddleback HSM Weekend in Review: Volume 271

Posted by Josh Griffin

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Weekend Teaching Series: Anchored: because the struggle is real (1-off)

Sermon Synopsis: This weekend was a special one that we had been planning for months. Because of the leadership of our senior pastor's wife, Kay Warren, we took on the topic of mental health and included things like suicide, depression, anxiety and more. I shared the teaching time with our college pastor Mike Brook, who shared his story as part of the lesson. It was a great weekend, students responded in droves and many found some first steps for hope and help in the darkness of their hearts and minds. We specifically pushed students to our program (Celebrate Recovery for Students) called The Landing and to some new Anchored support groups we kicked off last week.

Service Length: 88 minutes

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: This was one of the most powerful weekends we've had in a long time. We did very little programming, but had great music, lots of students serving, and some solid videos. We also introduced the Prayer Cove, a spot in the back of the youth room for students to come on any weekend and get prayer about anything in their life. It had some good traffic and I was proud of students responding to the message.

Music Playlist: Go, Flaws (Bastille cover), You Are, Grace, You Hold Me

Favorite Moment: I was particularly proud of one of our students, Sarah, who shared her story via video. It was a powerful message about depression, eating disorders, and more. She was so brave! Students were glued to the story and it was helpful to make people aware that church is a safe place to let people see the real you.

Up next: Summer Camp Kickoff Weekend (1-off)

POLL: Working Out and Youth Ministry

Posted by Josh Griffin

No guilt or shame in this one - just looking to get an idea of how active we are in youth ministry. If you know me ... I go in spurts or working out, right now I'm on a pretty good one dropping some pounds and adding some muscle. Ask me in a year ... well, we'll see. How about you? Fairly active these days? Vote now

JG

Restart of the DYM Book Club: Let’s start reading again!

Posted by Rachel Blom

I know, I know. It’s been waaaay too long since we did anything with the DYM Book Club. Completely my fault. I’m simply trying to juggle too many balls and as a result, I dropped this one. Luckily it’s not one that impacts anyone’s eternal destiny…I hope.

Anyway, the goal of the DYM Book Club was to read books together and discuss these, either in the comments here or in our Facebook group (which has been equally dead by the way). So let’s read some great books this month!

Here’s this month’s selection, handpicked by me because I wanted to start again soon. If you have suggestions for next month’s list, let me know!

As always, we pick four books from four different categories and you can read as many as you want…even all of them!

Young adult fiction: The Book Thief  by Markus Zusak

The Book Thief is one of the most popular young adult books from last year (and the year before I think) that has also been made into a movie. Haven’t watched it, haven’t read it yet :)

Simplify isn't technically a leadership book, but my educated guess is that the senior pastor of Willow Creek has a lot to teach us that we can apply to our leadership as well. 

Shaped by the Story has been on my book shelf for a while. Michael Novelli did an amazing workshop on this topic at the Simply Youth Ministry Conference in 2013 and it inspired me to do more with Bible storying. Still, I never quite got around to reading this book, so this month it will happen!

Let me know your thoughts on these books!

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5 Things To Keep In Mind To Keep Going

Posted by Justin Knowles

I was hanging out with of mine about youth ministry and were talking about the things in which we need to remember within leadership to keep going in youth ministry. Ministry can be exhausting (anyone want to give a testimony on that?) but it is so, so worth it when we see students finally grasp the Gospel for the first time. I heard someone say once, “I took up DIY projects and love them because there is a start and finish to them. We work towards something that we wont see the true end. In ministry our work is never finished and we will never see the end work on this side of heaven.” So how do you keep going? What are the things you need to have in the back of your head?

I’m sure there are a TON more but the five my friend and I wrote down are, what I think, some big ones to keep in mind.

Seek God – Seems standard right? You’d be surprised about how many people drift into doing whatever they are doing out of their own power and not seeking God in the process. We can all put on services and have a gathering of people and not seek God in the process. This is where burn out happens, because we rely on our own strength to keep going. Seeking God in everything aspect in your ministry is crucial to sustaining. Don’t let your ego get in the way.

1 Chronicles 16:11  - Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his presence continually!

Have Grace – We work with broken people. We minister to broken people. Hurt people hurt people. It can happen where we get so frustrated with the people on our staff, on our volunteer team and our students and one of the best ways to minister to people is allowing them to watch how you react to certain situations. We need to show grace because God has shown us grace. So let’s minister with grace and watch what God does through it. If you don’t, you are going to be upset… a lot.

Ephesians 2:8-9 - For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.

Have Fun – Stop taking yourself so serious. Some of us need to tell our faces we are having fun. I won’t write too much on this because my friend Neely McQueen wrote a great post on having fun. Click HERE to read it.

Proverbs 17:22 - A cheerful heart does good like medicine, but a broken spirit makes one sick.

Keep Learning – Lots of people feel like they get “stuck” in ministry. I think when we are continually learning and challenging ourselves it allows us to think outside what we are currently doing and asking the question of “Is this what I should be doing?” Keep learning about God, keep learning how to be a better leader, keep seeking ideas from other youth pastors and learning what is working in other areas. It’s a dangerous place to be when you feel you “got it and sticking to it” because in an instant… it’s gone. Our ministries will only as far we the leaders are so if we keep learning, growing and expanding our ministries will follow.

Proverbs 18:15 - An intelligent heart acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge.

Keep Going – Ministry can be discouraging at times. Ministry can be a place where we sometimes wonder, “Am I even effective?” I believe this is the enemy seeping into your mind and feeding you lies. If you are called, you’re equipped. Keep going and be faithful because we serve a faithful God.

Psalms 119:90 - Your faithfulness endures to all generations;  you have established the earth, and it  stands fast.

 

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Download Youth Ministry Webshow: Episode 265

Posted by Josh Griffin

Welcome back, webshow fans! Here's another glorious episode of the Download Youth Ministry Webshow - this show marks 265 episodes to date, far and away the longest running podcast in youth ministry history. Which is both awesome and sad.

This week we welcome back our new primary sponsor ORANGE also love our other great sponsors - Azusa Pacific University, Leadertreks and Youth Ministry 360. Join the team! Just enough youth ministry so you don't feel guilty for listening! 

JG

Don't Forget To Have FUN!!

Posted by Neely McQueen

Busy is the norm in youth ministry. You work all week to create a great program on Sunday to start all over again on Monday, meanwhile you try to manage parents, leaders and students. There really is never enough time to get the work done. Don't even get me started camps, mission trips and outreach events.

Do you ever feel like you were tricked as a teenager to thinking being a youth worker will be all fun and games? Youth ministry is hard work...but that doesn't mean we shouldn't have any fun.

Thanks to five 7th grade girls I was reminded of an important element I had forgotten in the midst of the heavy work of ministry. We had one night to make memories and to celebrate their soccer team's victory at State. And I am going to be honest, we had one amazing and fun night.

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We had so much fun and they made me laugh so hard. And they reminded me that having fun is good for our ministry.

Fun is good for students. There is a lot of darkness in the world of students.To have a few moments to laugh, to be reminded that there is goodness and joy is a gift for students. Having fun together is also part of the road that makes way for honest conversations. There is a vulnerability to being silly that is necessary for real connection. Fun is good for students.

Fun is good for your ministry. Fun is contagious...watch it spread and grow.

Fun is good for you. Despite the fact that I was exhausted the next day, I couldn't help but feel more passionate about my work. I love students, they make me smile, we can have fun and my desire for them to know Jesus on a deeper level grew after that night.

It doesn't matter how long you have been doing youth ministry or how old you are...Don't forget to have fun.

A cheerful heart does good like medicine, but a broken spirit makes one sick. Proverbs 17:22

GUEST POST: Youth Ministry, Culture and That Dress

Posted by Josh Griffin

Attempt to listen to students tell you that what they post online doesn't make an impact. Tell that to tumblr user Swiked. Don't recognize that name?

How about this dress:

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Yup. That's the dress.

On Wednesday, February 25th, this tumblr user posted this photo asking a basic question:

What colors do you see?

To use a phrase often associated with this news story "the collective internet lost their minds."

Some saw white and gold. Others saw black and blue.

Still others forgot what colors meant altogether.

On Thursday, February 26th the dress was all over the Internet. On social media it was everywhere.

Jokes were abundant.

Major corporations were picking up on it and using it to advertise.

Youth pastors everywhere praised the Lord for another illustration on perspective.

Bear with me as I go in another direction.

This silly dress was news!

On the way home from work on Friday, February 26th, NPR (yes I'm an old man and listen to NPR) was doing a segment on it.

The National Public Radio broadcast cared about this important issue!

To me that was beyond nuts.

But people make culture.

Read that again: People make culture.

The dress will be an old joke by the time you read this (remember how cool the Harlem Shake was?) and our students will have moved on. If you bring it up at the end of April, they'll probably moan and say "that's so old!"

But it shows us that people can decide what matters and what is our collective culture.

Leverage this truth with your students!

Using their social media platforms and their collective voices, our students that we minister to each and every week have the power to decide the culture around them.

Let's help them to shape it based on something much more lasting and important: The Gospel of Jesus!

How can you do this?

Why not give your students pictures to post on their instagrams that do more than promote your next event.

Why not get them to help make a quick video (20 seconds or less) that tells a story of transformation that happened in your group? Could you make a longer one to share later?

Why not get your students randomly encouraging friends on Twitter (more than man and woman crushes)?

I'm still trying to figure out how to leverage this new way we influence culture for student ministry.

What are your thoughts?

(PS - It's white and gold.)

Ronald Long is the youth minister at a church in San Antonio, TX. He’s married to Bekah and dad to Sophie and Penny. He blogs a bit at ronaldlong.org and tweets at @ronald_long. He also runs, plays video games, and eats Taco Bell. Check out his resources in the Download Youth Ministry store!

Saddleback HSM Weekend in Review: Volume 270

Posted by Josh Griffin

Weekend Teaching Series: What If (series finale, week 3 of 3)

Sermon Synopsis: This weekend our junior high director Katie Edwards (of DYM Webshow fame as well) taught all students and all campuses from the video talk asking the What If question, what if I believed anything was possible. The whole video is above and she worked hard to teach students about the impossible strength of Christ. 

Service Length: 64 minutes

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: We played Trivia Crack this weekend! It crushed so, so hard! It was incredible and you can grab it for FREE here on DYM. Do it now! Best game ever!! We also had a fun rap video, lots of music and students involved greeting, student band, etc as well.

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Music Playlist: Made Alive, Sing and Shout, You Hold Me, How He Loves, Wake

Favorite Moment: I don't think we'll be doing another video series like this in the near future, but it was a noble experiement. Students paid attention to the video and there was certainly some positive decisions made for Christ, but I love the more age-specific content of a normal weekend.

Up next: Summer Camp Kickoff Weekend (1-off)

Trabuco Owns the Weekend Countdown Video

Posted by Josh Griffin

Thought this was a fun and clever way to start our You Own the Weekend series. Students made this time lapse video of a typical day at school. Nice!

JG

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Josh is the High School Pastor at Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, CA. He’s the co- founder of DYM and is the father of 4 who speaks a little, writes a little, Twitters a bit, and blogs a lot.

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Jen Bradbury

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