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GUEST POST: Youth Ministry, Culture and That Dress

Posted by Josh Griffin

Attempt to listen to students tell you that what they post online doesn't make an impact. Tell that to tumblr user Swiked.

Don't recognize that name?

How about this dress:


Yup. That's the dress.

On Wednesday, February 25th, this tumblr user posted this photo asking a basic question:

What colors do you see?

To use a phrase often associated with this news story "the collective internet lost their minds."

Some saw white and gold. Others saw black and blue.

Still others forgot what colors meant altogether.

On Thursday, February 26th the dress was all over the Internet. On social media it was everywhere.

Jokes were abundant.

Major corporations were picking up on it and using it to advertise.

Youth pastors everywhere praised the Lord for another illustration on perspective.

Bear with me as I go in another direction.

This silly dress was news!

On the way home from work on Friday, February 26th, NPR (yes I'm an old man and listen to NPR) was doing a segment on it.

The National Public Radio broadcast cared about this important issue!

To me that was beyond nuts.

But people make culture.

Read that again: People make culture.

The dress will be an old joke by the time you read this (remember how cool the Harlem Shake was?) and our students will have moved on. If you bring it up at the end of April, they'll probably moan and say "that's so old!"

But it shows us that people can decide what matters and what is our collective culture.

Leverage this truth with your students!

Using their social media platforms and their collective voices, our students that we minister to each and every week have the power to decide the culture around them.

Let's help them to shape it based on something much more lasting and important: The Gospel of Jesus!

How can you do this?

Why not give your students pictures to post on their instagrams that do more than promote your next event.

Why not get them to help make a quick video (20 seconds or less) that tells a story of transformation that happened in your group? Could you make a longer one to share later?

Why not get your students randomly encouraging friends on Twitter (more than man and woman crushes)?

I'm still trying to figure out how to leverage this new way we influence culture for student ministry.

What are your thoughts?

(PS - It's white and gold.)

Ronald Long has been the youth minister for FBC Lexington, TN for years. He’s married to Bekah and dad to Sophie and Penny. He blogs a bit at ronaldlong.org and tweets at @ronald_long. He also runs, plays video games, and eats Taco Bell. Check out his resources in the Download Youth Ministry store!

Saddleback HSM Weekend in Review: Volume 270

Posted by Josh Griffin

Weekend Teaching Series: What If (series finale, week 3 of 3)

Sermon Synopsis: This weekend our junior high director Katie Edwards (of DYM Webshow fame as well) taught all students and all campuses from the video talk asking the What If question, what if I believed anything was possible. The whole video is above and she worked hard to teach students about the impossible strength of Christ. 

Service Length: 64 minutes

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: We played Trivia Crack this weekend! It crushed so, so hard! It was incredible and you can grab it for FREE here on DYM. Do it now! Best game ever!! We also had a fun rap video, lots of music and students involved greeting, student band, etc as well.


Music Playlist: Made Alive, Sing and Shout, You Hold Me, How He Loves, Wake

Favorite Moment: I don't think we'll be doing another video series like this in the near future, but it was a noble experiement. Students paid attention to the video and there was certainly some positive decisions made for Christ, but I love the more age-specific content of a normal weekend.

Up next: Summer Camp Kickoff Weekend (1-off)

Trabuco Owns the Weekend Countdown Video

Posted by Josh Griffin

Thought this was a fun and clever way to start our You Own the Weekend series. Students made this time lapse video of a typical day at school. Nice!


Saddleback HSM Weekend in Review: Volume 269

Posted by Josh Griffin

Weekend Teaching Series: What If (week 2 of 3)

Sermon Synopsis: This weekend I got to teach on David and Goliath based on the question, "What if I didn't care what people thought about me" and how David boldly stood alone for Christ in the face of extreme challenge. The talk is included in full above, or you can get it in teachable outline form for $3 on DYM.

Service Length: 63 minutes

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: We played the now classic Jimmy Fallon game Box of Lies live on stage - to be honest it always plays a bit better on TV than it does in youth group. Still though, a fun game we'll probably do again in the next few months. We also heavily promoted the upcoming HSM Talent Show as well. Good, quick service this weekend!

Music Playlist: We Shine, Let it Be Known, Oceans, Forever Reign

Favorite Moment: It was weird being there and also being the teacher on video, but I have to admit it allowed me a ton of time to just be reelational and not concentrate on the talk so much. A nice change of pace!

Up next: What If (series finale, week 3 of 3)

Special Spotify Playlist for Anchored Youth Group Service

Posted by Josh Griffin


Here's a simple, and I think fresh idea!

We did a 1-off message called Anchored a few weeks ago and thought it might be a good idea to point our students toward some good music to encourage them to put into practice the message and mindset of the talk. A few people got together and put together a free spotify playlist for our students to discover and listen to. How great is that!? Steal this idea for your next series!


You Are God's Masterpiece Sermon Bumper Video

Posted by Josh Griffin

I have no idea what magic our students used to make this simple, clever little sermon bumper video, but I LOVED it. Very cool, very clear message, so awesome! 


Saddleback HSM Weekend in Review: Volume 268

Posted by Josh Griffin

Weekend Teaching Series: What If (series premiere, week 1 of 3)

Sermon Synopsis: This weekend we kicked off a 3-week video series asking the question What If? The first lesson was taught by one of our regional campus youth pastors, Donnie Peters, and he walked through a message on making change that matters and sticks in a culture of New Years resolutions that quickly fade. I've included the whole video talk above, so enjoy if you want to take it all in!

Service Length: 62 minutes

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: We played Movie Mashup 2 (you can get the original one here on DYM, this sequel to be released soon) and the game was a huge hit. It is one of those games that plays well for the contestant but also is fun for the whole crowd to watch as well. It was awesome! We also had a few students share their testimony at the end of the service to help encourage other students to sign up for a family mission trip to the Navajo nation later this summer!

Music Playlist: We Are the Free, Amazing Grace, Sinking Deep, We Can Change the World

Favorite Moment: I liked that we tried something new. A video series was a lot of work for us, trying to keep it fun and interesting while obviously still respecting the source material. 

Up next: What If (week 2 of 3)

You Own the Weekend Kicks Off in Our Youth Ministry

Posted by Josh Griffin


We just had one of the most amazing weeks of the year this past week in youth group - the kickoff of You Own the Weekend! If you're unfamiliar with the concept - for the past 7 years we've found the most amazing Spring evangelistic program: the one where you never take the stage for a whole month and students do everything.

Basically it is the greatest series of all time! This past weekend Trabuco Hills High School kicked things off in a big way - and more than just creating a great program (which they did) they also capture the essence of YOTW, which is that "every student from every school gets an invitation to church." the place was packed! The Gospel was presented. It was AWESOME!

I hope you'll think about doing a series like this. People have riffed on it in all sorts of ways: freshman own the weekend, guys own the weekend, etc. How awesome! And if you want check out the resource I've created about the series - download it right here for $5!


Student Leadership Team Basics: How to Choose Student Leaders

Posted by Jen Bradbury


There are typically three ways to choose your youth ministry's student leaders.

  1. Vote. Similar to student council elections at school, peers elect those teens they want to be student leaders.

  2. Select. The youth pastor or a team of people selects who they want to be student leaders and specifically asks those teens to serve in this role.

  3. Apply. Applications are made available to everyone. Teens then complete an application. The youth pastor or a team of people then selects student leaders from that pool of applicants.

I've learned the hard way to avoid options 1 and 2. Here's why.

Too often, using a peer vote to select your ministry's student leaders leads to a popularity contest. As a result, you often end up with only one type of teen on your leadership team – extroverted cool kids. When this happens, leadership teams often become a clique unaware and unconcerned with those who aren't their friends. This leaves teens in your ministry who don't consider themselves extroverted or cool questioning whether or not they belong.

The opposite end of that spectrum – where youth pastors select their student leaders – is also flawed. As with peer votes, when youth pastors select their student leaders, they often end up with only one type of teen on their leadership team: Those who think and act like them. This not only leads to leadership team cliques but it also has the potential to turn into a personality cult – with you at the center of it. Additionally, it leads to the perception of favoritism. Those who aren't student leaders assume that your favorite teens are those who are. This, in turn, can make teens who aren't on your leadership team feel isolated or marginalized.

Because of those pitfalls, I use applications to select my student leaders.

Making applications available to anyone in your youth ministry who qualifies for leadership (more on that next week) invites all types of teens to become part of your leadership team. Often, those who apply to be student leaders will surprise you. My best student leaders are usually those who NEVER would have won a popularity vote. Sometimes they're also teens who have flown under my radar and as a result, if left solely up to me, would likely not have been selected for leadership.

Leadership team applications also allow for self-selection. Being a student leader is both a privilege and a responsibility. Not every teen in your ministry is ready (or willing) to make the commitment leadership requires. To help ferret out those who aren't yet ready for leadership, I ask short-answer questions on our ministry's student leadership applications knowing that doing so will take teens time. Teens not yet ready for formal leadership roles will self-select out of this process because they're unwilling to take the time or energy to complete the application. This often saves you from having to “cut” people from your leadership team while at the same time allowing you to see glimpses of teens' hearts and potential. That, in turn, allows you to figure out how to use each person on your team well.

To be clear, choosing student leaders for your youth ministry isn't easy.

Then again, maybe it shouldn't be. After all, leadership isn't easy, 

But take it from me, using leadership team applications to select your student leaders is your best option for choosing leaders. Such a process will enable you to get to know applicants, choose leaders wisely, and create a team that's not only serious about leadership, but that also more accurately reflects all the different types of students in your ministry.

Other posts in this series:

Student Leadership Team Basics: Why? 

Image Credit: http://www.thelivingleader.com/wp-content/uploads/leadership.jpg







Youth Ministry & Family Adjusting Conversations

Posted by Josh Griffin


Sometimes you just have to have one of those "come to Jesus" moments in your life. Maybe an event triggers it, maybe your spouse pulls you aside and has that look on his or her face. Maybe you're feeling the final birth pangs of burnout and you know something has to change or you're done for.

Well, we had one of those tonight. 

Some adjustments to our life, our kids education, our house, our ministry, our roles, our routines - all of it was on the table tonight just me and my wife at Olive Garden (I go classy, people). And it was awesome, long overdue and incredibly hopeful.

From time to time we can get so head down in ministry, raising kids and doing God's work we get buried. Things pile up and people pile on until you're simply overwhelmed. Hence the big conversation tonight. We made some tough calls, cut some things, added some things, changed up the priorities of our family and life. And we're going to be better parents, ministers and have a better marriage because of it.

I'm thankful for this time tonight over unlimited soup and salad. It was important to stop, talk, pray and make adjustments as you go through life, that is especially true if you're in ministry. I hope you will have those type of conversations from time to time in your home as well ... they are so important!


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